Tuesday, December 27, 2011

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Choosing the three words "Allow Natural Death" over "Do Not Resuscitate", the other three words used when making the decision to provide no resuscitation to keep someone alive, can make such a profound difference in the lives and hearts of grieving families. There is a movement rising in health care systems throughout the country to institute this new terminology.

These medical orders to "Do Not Resuscitate" written as a prescription by a physician in a patient's chart, are usually given at a time when the patient has no chance of survival with medical means or following an 'advance directive' that the patient wrote him/herself.

One of the more difficult duties I had as a nurse working in a hospital was talking to families about the decision to "DNR", or "Do Not Resuscitate", their sick and dying loved one.

I always thought the expression "Do Not Resuscitate" sounded cold and commanding. In discussions with the families it was evident to me that they took this to mean "do not keep my loved one alive", and of course they wanted to keep their loved one alive!

"Do Not Resuscitate" sounds withholding and like a 'take-away'.

I'm so glad to hear that "Allow Natural Death" will take its place.

"Allowing" is not a command, it sounds like an appreciation of an organic inevitable process. Let me rant for a bit here..........

So my experiences of the DNR's in the hospital were...once the families had to make the gut-wrenching decision, they then had to put their signature on paper stating that command - which carries some emotional weight in and of itself. And to top it off, when the decision was made and the papers signed, then it was advertised! The letters "DNR" were posted all over the place...on the walls...near the patient's bed...on the doors going into the room...and sometimes even written on the patients clothing or skin!

This is one of the many things that makes me shudder when I think about the loss of dignity people experience in the hospital, especially in end-of-life (thank goodness for hospice where dignity is maintained). It is also one of the many reasons why I was so insistent that my parents die at home (which they wanted for themselves) if the conditions were right in that there was no need for ventilator or other equipment.

Five years ago this week my mother, who was hospitalized at was University of Penn for her kidney cancer, was told by her physicians she had very little time left to live. The topic of "Do Not Resuscitate" didn't even come up. Without a second thought we called Samaritan Hospice in Marlton New Jersey and brought her home to "Allow a Natural Death" in the comfort of her home surrounded by her loved ones.

We believed this helped to create conditions to allow a natural death...comfortably and peacefully. And she did have one weeks later. The beautiful thing was that as a family we always used natural healing methods in our home, and just as we used them for living a good life, we also used them for dying a good death (for both of my parents).

Seven years ago after my father died a peaceful death at home, I took this concept and I created "Peaceful Passages: Complementary Therapies in End of Life Care" to create awareness of our ability to use wonderful holistic modalities for comfort and care, involvement of family members, and to facilitate a natural and peaceful death.

I also started a scholarship fund to help pay for education for people who want to study holistic modalities like energy healing, aromatherapy, massage, reflexology if they are going to use it in end of life settings or situations. I would like to share this aspect of my work with you.

If you haven't seen my website yet, please visit it! Go to: http://www.peacefulpassages.org - (and download the free report on "17 Natural Ways to Comfort Your Loved One Who is Sick or Dying".


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Thursday, December 22, 2011

Split Personality - A Myth Or a Reality?

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Introduction

In this world of todays', there are a lot of implausible diseases; one of them is the disease of human's mind, which is called as split-personality disorder. Not many people around the world believe if this disease really exists or not, or they rather think that the person is acting.

I was on my way from Bangalore, India to Mumbai, India and during the journey I was just chatting with the person sitting next to me and during the process of our conversation we begin to discuss on "Split Personalities".

I distinctly remember that when I was in college, I had one very good friend of mine and his name was Mr. T. Kiran Kumar. The uniqueness of our relation was our compatibility and depth of understanding. Whether we were with kids, or classmates or elderly people or uneducated people or females or highly intellectuals, hardly mattered; how we might behave, was entirely based on the type of group that we were part of. Believe me or not but our attitude, approach, behavior, and our way to react to a given situation was based on the type of group we were into. Does that imply that we were having split personalities? If that is the case then every one of us are having split personalities. We behave differently with our family members, with our friends, our spouse, and unknown people, right?

Let's see.

Let us understand the term "Split Personality".

Definition of Split Personality: "A relatively rare dissociative disorder in which the usual integrity of the personality breaks down and two or more independent personalities emerge".

Explanation: There is no category or phenomenon in psychiatry called split personality. The term is commonly used in popular language to indicate an ambiguous or radically and spectacularly alternating type of behavior of the "Jekyll and Hyde" type. It is often bewildered with the medical illness of schizophrenia because the etymology of the latter (from the Greek schizein, to split + phren, mind) suggests, misleadingly, that schizophrenia is a type of split personality. In schizophrenia, however, the splitting is within one single personality as the individual's thoughts, feelings and emotions are seriously and confusingly disconnected from each other in a chaotic and random fashion. Schizophrenic individuals, far from having split or multiple personalities, actually have a great struggle maintaining the coherence and integrity of even a single self.

Before proceeding further let's try and understand as what we mean by term "Personality".

HUMAN PERSONALITY

There are three distinct meanings for the term "personality," two of them general and popular and the third technical and philosophical. The first and most general meaning is that personality is the sum of the characteristics, which make up physical and mental being. These include appearance, manners, habits, tastes and moral character. The second meaning emphasizes the characteristics that distinguish one person from another. The two meanings overlap or merge into each other, as the first considers all characteristics pertaining to the individual, without comparing him with others, while the second sees the same facts in relation to the outside world and fixes attention mainly upon the features that distinguish the subject from his fellows. This second meaning is equivalent to individuality. It represents a widely prevalent conception of the term.

But the third meaning is the most important, and is the only conception of any value to the psychic researcher and the philosopher or psychologist. This conception of personality is concerned only with mental characteristics; it makes no distinction between common and specific marks. In fact it connotes mental processes rather than fixed qualities. The capacity for having mental states, or the fact of having them, constitutes personality for the psychologist and the philosopher. Personality is thus the stream of consciousness, regardless of the question whether any special state is constant or casual, essential or unessential. Physical marks will have no place in this conception, unless they may serve as symbols of mental states. It abstracts from them and denotes only the stream of mental phenomena.

This third meaning is so radically different from the other two that it gives rise to perpetual misunderstandings between the philosopher and the public. These misunderstandings arise particularly in the discussion of survival after death. The layman with his conception of personality looks for physical phenomena of some kind to illustrate or prove it. Consequently, if interested in psychic phenomena at all, he prefers materialization, which best satisfies his conception of personality. He cannot take the point of view of the psychologist or the philosopher, who neglects these purely sensory characteristics, and fixes his attention on mental states as the proper conception of the personality, which may survive. Materialization would supply the very characteristics, which the layman fixes upon to represent personality. But precisely the fact that mental states are not presented to sense, leads the philosopher to conceive of immortality as possible.

If the layman's conception were correct the philosopher and psychologist would deny the possibility of survival with entire confidence, as a necessary implication of bodily dissolution. The day could be saved only by the doctrine of a "spiritual body," an It astral body," or an "ethereal organism," supposedly a replica of the physical organism in its spatial and other characteristics. These represent personality after the manner or analogy of the physical body. The real spirit may indeed have a transcendental bodily form; but the stream of consciousness remains the same whether there is any "spiritual body" or "ethereal organism" or not. This is the fundamental element in all conceptions of spiritual reality. It is not necessary to decide the question of a "spiritual body" or "ethereal organism" as the condition of believing in the existence of spirits. That is another and perhaps a secondary problem. What we need to know is, whether the stream of consciousness survives, whether the personal memory continues, not how it continues. The fact of survival is to be considered first and the condition of it afterwards.

Historical Review of "Split Personality"

Possible cases of split personality have been reported in the medical literature since the early 19th century, and the condition was formally defined in the first years of the 20th. But until recently it was considered extremely rare--fewer than 200 cases were described before 1980. The diagnosis became much more common in the 80s for several reasons. One was the phenomenal popularity of Flora Schreiber's 1973 book Sybil, which told of a woman with 16 personalities. Stories of "multiples," fictionalized or otherwise, were nothing new--The Three Faces of Eve dates from 1954, "The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde" from way back in 1886--but Sybil made a crucial innovation, introducing the idea that multiple personalities stemmed from trauma during early childhood. Around the same time, child protection advocates and feminists began arguing that child abuse, especially sexual abuse, occurred far more often than previously supposed. And in the late 70s, in a phenomenon thought to be linked to the resurgence of Christian fundamentalism, reports of so-called satanic ritual abuse first captured the public's imagination.

Presented with, on one hand, allegations of an unrecognized epidemic of crimes against innocents and, on the other, a simple mechanism to explain why their troubled patients couldn't remember any abuse (i.e., the personality divides in order to shield itself from horrific memories), a small but devoted group of therapists began diagnosing multiple personality disorder with alarming frequency--more than 20,000 cases had been reported by 1990. Under the influence of hypnosis and other techniques, subjects reported dozens, hundreds, or even thousands of "alters" whose behavior, age, sex, language, and occasionally species differed from that of their everyday personas. Alters were coaxed into revealing bloodcurdling stories of abuse by family members, or of sacrificing their own babies to shadowy cults. One prominent multiple personality specialists claimed that the satanic network programmed alters into its victims, which it could then trigger to act in certain ways by sending them color-coded flowers.

By the early 1990s it began to dawn on rational folk just how preposterous the whole business was. Having investigated more than 12,000 accusations over four years, researchers at the University of California, Davis, and the University of Illinois at Chicago determined that not a single case of satanic ritual abuse had been substantiated. A 1992 FBI study arrived at the same conclusion: overeager therapists had planted horror stories in the minds of their patients. In 1998 psychologist Robert Rieber made a convincing case, based on an analysis of audiotapes, that even the famous Sybil had confabulated her multiple personalities at the insistence of her therapist. The bubble burst, and diagnoses of multiple personalities subsided.

Some real Life Examples of Split Personalities

Case-1

The first patient is a man named William S. Milligan, he was caught by the charge of rape in Ohio at 1977. As police and the psychologists examined him, they found the unbelievable fact that he had several personalities. Here are the first ten personalities they found. In The Minds of Billy Milligan;

1. The first personality is the main personality, Billy, twenty-seven years old, blue eyes, brown hair.

2. The second personality is Arthur, twenty-two years old, British. This personality and the next one are the keeper of the "Spot", where they can have the control of the body, or become themselves open to the outer world through the body of Billy.

3. The third personality is Leigen, twenty-three years old, Yugoslav, who knows how to fight and can use gun and other dangerous stuff, controls the hate.

4. Fourth personality is Allen, eighteen years old, talkative, only one who smoke and right handed.

5. Fifth personality is Tommy, sixteen years old, knows how to unlock chains or handcuffs, and the specialist of the electricity.

6. Sixth personality is Danny, fourteen years old, always scared to something especially man, blond hair, blue eyes.

7. Seventh personality is David, eight years old, controls pain, red-brown hair blue eyes.

8. Eighth personality is Christine, three years old, cannot talk, blond hair, female.

9. Ninth personality is Christopher, thirteen years old, brother of Christine.

10. For the last tenth personality, Adarana, nineteen years old, quiet, lesbian, female.

Those were the main ten personalities of the William S. Milligan. As if you wonder how they know their outlooks, William Milligan, Billy has a hobby of painting, or some of the personalities do. Therefore, they draw each other on the painting and that is how they get to know their outlooks.

Case-2

The woman's name is Claudia Ellen Yascow. She was arrested by the charge of killing four people, which they found later that she was not the suspect. However, it was not unnecessary for the police to think that she was the suspect, because she had information of the scene that cannot be known unless the person has been there. Even though the information was confusing and messy because of her mental disease, police believed her and thought that she was the suspect, for she knew even where the pot and other little detail was at when the crime occurred. She was caught once but let go after few month with the check of psychologist that she has a incubation type of split minds, and the lie detector found her answer to the question that she was not at the scene when the crime happened showed what she said is true, "No, I did not."

Her trouble is brought up mainly because of her mental disease, incubation type of split mind. Claudia is different, as she can always be herself even she is in a great pressure, but she will be losing a collect criterion to judge what kind of situation she is in. For example, when she was caught in jail, she truly thought that she was in a middle of movie taking and she was playing her rolls of main heroine. "Suddenly she put the smile on her face and said 'I never thought that I could have a great chance like this,' She leaned her head on the wall.'I've always thought of having a chance to do a big act like a big actress. I do have some experience of acting in few films as a supporting player, but if I play this murderess act, maybe I can be very famous.' Dye stared at her and asked, 'You think we are making a film right now?' She slapped his hand softly, smiling, 'Oh Dye, you have seen all those cameras at the corridor and those of TV's. I hope I can have a deal with a lot of money coming in, you know it is kind of hard to act.'

As you can see above, by the shock she got from been captured by police, her mind had made an escape way from pain by believing that all the stuff going is an act and not a real deal. This is very close to what Billy has done to himself; only the difference is that fortunately, Claudia was not getting shocked when she was before teenager, but after she became an adult. I think that this is the reason why she was quite right in condition even though she had some mental problems since she was fourteen and had been looked after by a psychologist. Her case is still, with a great trouble, that in such a hard circumstance like in the police office, she would be nervous and will not be able to say what she really wants to.

As she says in Unveiling Claudia, "If I am lying to you right now, that is anything but my will. She is telling the truth here that her mind is trying to protect herself by not telling the truth about the matter, and she cannot help it. It is rather an act of her instinct, to let the shock coming above her because of telling and remembering the truth softer in order to not breakdown for it.

This has been appearing in the way of making the book. As she was making the confession about the murder, she always kept telling a one big story with half lie and half-truth. As you will find later that the truth was such a hard one that it was too much for her to remember it and telling it to the person who you met one or two years ago. This can be seen in Unveiling Claudia, " 'Claudia, I don't know what I should believe in you.' She put her hand on my shoulder and looked into my eye. 'I'm sorry Dan. I do trust you more than before. But not enough.'" This conversation was held more than two years past after they have met, and as you can see that she is very careful about telling the truth and that is why she kept telling lie, or something that she believed it was a truth and unfortunately it was not. Although she is always careful about telling the truth, she is always an easy person to make believe. If someone tells her that she has a superstitious power, she believes it and so on. This has prevented her from stopping the murder, because she had known that the real suspects of the case had planned to proceed the crime week before the murder. However, she was busy and also her weak mind was scared with the pressure what if she tell it to the victim and the what if the suspects would know about it and come after her? In the way of her mind escaping from the reality, she started to believe that it was an oracle, and she could not stop the crime. This story was one of the reason she was arrested once by the story told by her friend that she knew that the crime is going the happen a week before, and the truth was different.

The shocking truth was told on the end, and it was shocking enough for her mind to look for some escape way. On the night when crime has occurred, she was forced to go to the place with a gay, right after the murder had happened. The man was gay but he had a gun in his hand and she could not refuse to go there with him. Their car came in front of the house just in time when two suspects where killing the victim, and after they had gone away, they went to the house's garage where there was a one dead body of a man and one body of woman laying on the floor. Claudia was forced to put her hand into the dead woman's genitals and find a bag of drugs. Now, this is a real hard and sick experience for the twenty-six years old woman, or any other person in the world. She was shocked and her mind could not stand it and she has lost her memories in order to prevent the breakdown.

After few days she found herself knowing about that crime but could not find out why she knows so much about it. She shared that story with police and they misjudged her as a criminal and put her in jail.

What they have to say

Article analysis by Joshua Burke

"My father is a metal health counselor here in the US. He has seen only 2 multiple personality disorders in his 20+ years of private practice. In both cases patients were former participants in covens. One was a willing participant and the other was supposedly the unwilling offspring of a "breeder" program.

Neither my father nor I are generally prone to believe such things for the very reasons that you put forth in your article but never-the-less both patients exhibited classic multiple personality disorder symptomology. In the case of the unwilling participant he came to the conclusion that the majority of the damage to her psyche had been done by a previous therapist, when he met with the therapist and watched him work with her he was then certain that this was the case... Perhaps this fits with your theory of therapists putting ideas into people's heads.

Unfortunately, this leaves a difficult problem to solve... Whether or not the problem is caused by a therapist or by some other external force, what is to be done with these people? Regardless of *how* they got that way they still deserve to be whole persons who will probably require further therapy... The *cause* of multiple personality disorder is not so important to determine for these patients as healing is.

The process used by my father in his therapy sessions is called re-integration where the personalities are not taught how to *co-exist* but rather how to re-integrate with the main persona or the core identified "true self" as discovered in therapy. This re-integration can be very simple or complicated depending on the strength of a particular personality.

For instance, if a person has one major alternate and several minor ones the minor ones would be integrated first before the major etc. The difficulty arises because for each personality present there is a tremendous loss of individuality for each one and in each case this loss of an individual "persona" is often felt as a grief or loss of a friend for the true self. As each personality is re-integrated the true self becomes more in tune with its own emotions and feels this grief more keenly. For this reason it is important to take things slowly and to address only personalities that emerge rather than force anything.

In many cases a person's sense of self may be so buried under all of these layers of 'others' that finding the true self may be the most difficult part of the therapeutic process. Often this self is so weak and lacking in will that it presents as a smaller, other personality. It takes caring, sensitivity and insight to help these people since this true self is often a very young child.

It might sound strange and eerie and it is... The problem with your argument of is it all in their head is that of course it is... Does that make it any less real for the people who suffer from it? It is very similar to people who experience vivid hallucinations, are those things real? No. Do they cause them grief and pain? Yes".

Stay in touch and yes, do take care of your good self because you are precious.

Regards,


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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Delivering Food to a Family afterwards the Death of a Loved One

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I have delivered food to grieving families and you probably have, too. Once I delivered a large casserole of beef stew with burgundy, something I would not do now. For after having two family members die on the same weekend I have a different slant on food deliveries. Food is appreciated, but I think we need to update the custom, and here are my suggestions.

1. CALL FIRST. You don't know how much food has already been delivered. The refrigerator and freezer may be full and additional food will cause problems. Before you make anything call and see if the family needs food. When a church friend called I turned down her offer of food. "It's all we can do to eat a scrambled egg," I explained.

2. FIX FAMILIAR FOODS. My husband and I were so overcome with grief that we had upset stomachs. We hardly ate anything and when we did it was simple stuff like tomato soup. Spicy food may not be the best choice at this time. Rather, deliver familiar foods -- clear soups, custard, fresh fruit -- things that go down easily.

3. CONSIDER PORTION SIZES. Some family members appreciated food deliveries, but others were overwhelmed by the portion sizes . Dividing food into small portions encourages family members to eat. Packaging food in small freezer containers is also helpful.

4. OFFER TO SHOP. Going to the grocery store after my daughter was killed in a car crash took all the courage I had. I would meet friends at the store and burst into tears when they expressed sympathy. Offer to pick up some groceries for the family the next time you shop. Tell them when you will deliver the groceries.

5. CHECK BACK LATER. After the death of a loved one family members are overwhelmed with legal and financial tasks. They may run out of milk or find they are short of basic supplies like toilet paper. Contact the family again and see if they need anything.

6. NO THANKS NECESSARY. Years ago, when our family was in crisis, a church friend gave us some soup. A note was taped to the top of the bowl and it said, "No thanks are necessary. I wanted to do this for you." This is a stressful time for all family members. Telling them that no thanks are necessary helps to relieve their stress.

Delivering food is a time-honored custom and one worthy of continuing. The best food you can provide is food for the soul and the words, "I'm so sorry."

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Imagine what a difficult and time spicy job you're going to be faced with seeing a dead someone if you have to taste all government offices in the country. They may not even have died in the country in which Case you could be wasting vast amounts of your time. I'm guessing that you have good things to do with your time.

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There is hope however. There is an easier way for you to find dead population and it's explained in the description How Do I Find Dead People? This description shows you how to use websites that are dedicated to gathering the information that you need and production it all ready to you in one easy to access place. legitimately millions of records from a huge estimate of distinct databases are all brought together ready for your research. They've done all the hard work for you so that you don't have to chase colse to yourself. All you have to do is log on and enter the details that you know about the someone that you want to find and let the website go to work for you while you sit back and relax for a few minutes.

These online database websites use resources from government records databases and many other information providers both social and private. They potentialy hold far more information about your friends and relatives than you could ever hope to uncover if you had to do the legwork yourself the old way.

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Tuesday, April 12, 2011

When Dead Relatives Come to Visit

When habitancy are approaching death - maybe weeks, even months sometimes - it's not uncommon for them to feel dead relatives advent to visit. The husband who died years before. Mom and Dad visiting an 88-year-old daughter. habitancy with Alzheimer's and other dementias also have these visitors.

For house members, who may not know or be complicated with other elders as they are with their own parents, can be indubitably upset by these dead visitors. However, there's no need to be upset. They're just passing visitors, or visitations, or waking dreams or - you decide. One thing they are Not is crazy. They're not even unusual manifestations.

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They're so usual that person like myself, who spends a fair estimate of time being with elders who are dying, or going to get there, are familiar with the phenomenon. Ask any hospice nurses - they'll tell you the same.

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Now I don't indubitably even try to define what the phenomenon is, because how would I know - other than that these are normal around-dying events. habitancy are very comforted by these visits.

I have a dear friend of 92 who was seriously ill in hospital, from which she recovered - thank goodness. When she returned home, she told me her late husband had been sitting in the chair beside her bed the whole time.

So should I have called in the psych nurses? Told her doctor she was crazy? Phoned for the exorcist to drop round to her house? Of course not. If you spend time with the dying, you'll find they often have these experiences and are happy to share them. I'm happy to hear about them I'm happy they still feel so in touch with those who loved them. I happy to hear that the continuing spirits of those who have left their bodies come to help and comfort the living who may soon join them.

I neither believe nor disbelieve in their experiences. I don't have to, because they're not my experiences and furthermore, they are clearly helpful, spiritually uplifting and loving experiences, so what the heck?

I'm always amazed that habitancy who purport to be practicing Christians, a religion in which life after death is a big feature, get bent out of shape by accounts of these experiences.

And they do. They get upset, they want Mom medicated out of her visitations - weird huh? It's as if they just can't cope that there may indubitably be life after death. Me> I'm cool with people's accounts of their experiences.

There's hardly a culture or religion in the whole world not familiar with such accounts. Visitations, experiences. But in the Usa, oh my! Actually, in my experiences of talking with a lot of Americans about a lot of personal lives, I find that these around-death experiences probably touch about 70 percent of everyone. They're just afraid to talk about them in Case we think they're nuts. Isn't that sad?

So, my dears, if Mom tells you Grandma and Grandpa came to see her - and you know they've been dead for 50 years - don't be spooked. Just smile and nod and be glad that her heart, her mind, her spirit, the drugs or your grandparents, are supporting at a time of most need for such visits.

Remember, dead relatives advent to visit - that's normal.

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Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Ten Ways to Pray For Deceased Loved Ones With One straightforward Prayer

When a loved one dies, it is as if the world ends. Before we receive any condolement messages, numbness, shock and disbelief are often the first reactions when we receive a phone call that man close to us has died. As one who cares, you may feel helpless to control or change the situation. How do you express condolement wishes that show that you care during this time?

Dealing with death is difficult. Mourning, grief and loss are the hardest things in life that many habitancy will experience. For example, a popular scale measures psychological stress from zero to one hundred. The death of a spouse is rated as the most stressful - a measure of one hundred at the top of the stress scale.

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Condolence words may can be difficult to find or compose, especially when a death is thoroughly unexpected. Contribution prayers to remember a deceased loved one and preserve house and friends is a comforting way to be present at this time of loss.

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San Francisco was an area of artistic creation during the mid-to-late 60's. Whether it was art, poetry or music, the Haight-Ashbury area of San Francisco was the place for like-minded individuals to explore and create. Noted jazz columnist Ralph J. Gleason took note of the exploding rock music scene and produced several television specials and documentaries spotlighting the music emerging from San Francisco. A Night At The Family Dog is one part of a two-part series (the other is Go Ride The Music) that aired on The National Educational Television Network in 1970.

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The process of grieving is very general after a loved one dies. After a grandparent, parent, child, relative or friend is gone, you have a dissimilar relationship. There is no such thing as a typical loss. Long after the funeral, it is common for a survivor to contact yearning - wanting to see our deceased loved one again - and soon.

The stark fact of life is that corporal death happens to everyone. A religious Christian faith believes in a best life for eternity - a home with a loving God forever.

A simple prayer can change your heart and mind as you cope with the loss. Here are ten things you can do just one simple prayer:

1. Find a prayer and write your loved one's name on it. Carry that prayer with you in your purse. Every time you go shopping, say a prayer for your loved. One.

2. Give a simple prayer to a grieving husband, wife, mum or father. Having a prayer to say yourself is a good thing; helping others who are grieving is even better. We make best companions in life when we share each other's burdens.

3. Use a simple prayer card for a bookmark in your Bible or popular book. Especially if you write a loved one's name on the prayer, you can recall him or her when you are reading and say a quick prayer.

4. Make a small shrine with a simple prayer and a photo of your loved one. Find a popular area where you might sit and drink a cup of tea, water or coffee. Remember that your loved ones are right there with you and then offer the prayer to remember their presence.

5. Put a prayer your wallet and and look at it often. A wallet often carries money, which is precious. But not as precious as your loved one. So, when you pull out money, remember the real important thing in life - your love of your loved one.

6. Place a simple prayer on your night stand. That way you can say the prayer when you get up in the morning and before you go to bed.

7. Tuck a simple prayer in your jacket pocket so that you can pull it out and pray it during breaks at work. There is always time to remember and break up your day by saying a prayer for your loved one.

8. Display the prayer in your vehicle, so that you can read a prayer when you are stopped in traffic. Your loved one's life stopped unexpectedly at the intersection of life and death. Remember her when you are waiting for a red light to turn green.

9. Pray a simple prayer together with your house during morning or evening prayers. A house that prays together, stays together. Your loved one is on the other side, praying with you, too.

10. Share the prayer with house members and pray before meals to remember your loved one's presence with you as you eat. Meals are a extraordinary time to share love and news of the day. Fantasize your loved one right there with you at your kitchen or dinner table.

A simple prayer sends condolement messages that your deceased loved ones are at home with God when time is done. All you need to do is to find a prayer that you can adapt to pray all ten ways for your deceased loved ones.

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Thursday, March 17, 2011

Oh My God - My Friend's Only Son Is Dead! What Do I Do Now: Run and Hide?

It's evening; you're listening to the news on television. The news reporter tells of a fatal auto crisis while the July 4th fireworks activities. The name of the fatality is released, the house having already been notified. They say his name. It is the only son of a widowed lady in your prayer group from church. What do you do, you wonder? What is your responsibility to the widow, to her son?

You believe that Jesus commanded us to raise the dead, but absolutely Jesus didn't mean you, did He? And if He did, just what in thunder are you supposed to do to cause it to happen?

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What are the facts, you ask yourself? Well, 1) the widow is dead, 2) she has lost all power of self-defense in life, 3) she cannot exercise having the best defense by exhibiting a good offense because she is dead and 4) she cannot stand in the gap for her own resurrection's rising from the dead, as Jesus did for His some 2000 years ago.

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Totaling these facts up, you shocking realize that God expects you to now stand in the gap for the widow, as He did for the widow of Nain's only son. God expects you to provide her best defense by manifesting your faith in God's best offense, even His eternal word which endureth forever and ever.

You immediately drop everything and call her. No one answers; you leave voice mail and begin interceding in prayer on her behalf. An hour later and still no return phone call and no retort to your phone call; you go to her house to see her. Her car is in the drive but no one answers the doorbell or your loud knocking. You look in the back yard, no one is there.

All is quiet. You check with the neighbors on both sides and one of them indicates the lady arrived home earlier in the day and has not gone out. They outline she is probably sleeping, exhausted from the trauma of losing a loved one.

You are concerned. The Holy Spirit has been nudging you but you are unsure as to why. You check the front door and it is locked. You walk nearby back and explore the back door is unlocked. Announcing yourself and calling your friend's name, you enter the house cautiously.

You find your friend seated in the living room, quietly sleeping the deep sleep of death. The widow has suffered a severe heart attack, brought on by the deep traumatic experience of enduring the devastating loss of her second loved one, and being left all alone in life. The grief was too much for such a frail body; it gave up the ghost and perished.

What do you do?

First off right out of the gate, you begin to pray in faith over the man whole personage, speaking aloud the faith confessions we are exterior as follows; that it was God's will to raise the dead in New Testament days, that it is the will of God to raise the dead today in the 21st Century, and that it is the will of God for you, as a believer in Jesus Christ, to lay hands of Fire on your Christian friend and raise her back to life. What you absolutely do is to speak the Bible-word of life over the person; and this of course, mandates the prerequisite of you having previously input said Bible-word of life into your own spirit and soul.

Tell Jesus that you expect the man to be raised back to life because He Himself said to expect it. Go on the football obnoxious and command the person's spirit to come back into the body. Begin thanking Jesus for sending the spirit of this man back into the body, command the lungs to be filled with the breath of life and command the person's eyes to open, in the Name of Jesus. Do not doubt, only Believe. Begin listing some reasons why this man deserves to be raised from the dead. (Let's try again. Can you name these reasons right now?)

Having done all, stand on the word of God and your faith in it. Begin praising God in all His goodness; worship Him for all of His mercy and compassion. Continue with this until the man stirs and begins breathing. It is prominent that you remember that your job is to go as far as the Word of God will take you, in raising your prayer-group friend back to life. Jesus will do the rest of what you yourself cannot do.

Picture you yourself as being an actual living part of this life-scenario in your mind and dreams. Will you be ready for this moment when it gets here? One year, one month, one day...it will come to pass. Will you be ready? What will you do? Will you be ready?

And when I return, says the Lord, will I find faith (to raise widows) on the Earth?

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Thursday, March 10, 2011

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